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151 Put A Finger Down Questions For The Best Game Night in 2025

Published on Oct 8th 2025
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Asking Put a Finger Down questions is essentially the same as Never Have I Ever. Both forms of entertainment are designed to help you get to know your friends more intimately. While they both lead to discussions on experiences you've tried, Never Have I Ever questions start by discussing things the person has potentially never tried, while Put a Finger Down questions start with examples of experiences they have tried. 

Either way, they lead to the same destination: finding out more about the person in a sometimes subtle, sometimes outrageous way. To get that foundational information in a playful way, try a few rounds with these Put a Finger Down questions!

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What Is the Put A Finger Down Challenge On TikTok?

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The Put Your Finger Down Trend on TikTok

On TikTok, the Put Your Finger Down questions Challenge started out as a fun game and a way to get more random, funny reels going on the platform. A lot of what TikTok is used for involves entertainment for oneself and others — such as funny dance videos or voice actors reading works of literature. However, some people have decided to use this game as a way to bring attention and awareness to mental health, unhealthy dating trends and other unhealthy habits — such as pointing out red flags in a relationship (and how the person playing might be the guilty party).

An article in the Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy explores the concept of friendship, focusing on how each friendship is built on mutual care. Though it's hard to care about someone else unless you know about their passions and their life experiences. So, whether you're playing with Put Your Finger Down questions for fun or something deeper, remember that what matters is how you use the information you discover and the joy it brings from entertainment.

Who Asks Put Your Finger Down Questions?

You could play this alone, but the best is to play it in a group. Grab your bestie or partner, gather your mates and play it during a party, do it as a parent-child bonding experience, or video call your long-time pen pal. It really depends on you. 

Where Should You Ask Put Your Finger Down Questions?

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There is no better place than where you are (via Canva)

There really is no place beyond limits for playing this game. It really depends on the kinds of questions you are asking. For instance, keep your questions child and work-safe if you're at a summer camp or in an office building, but feel free to get a little spicy if you're on a date or at an adult house party. This game makes for a fun alternative to similar games like Would You Rather, This or That and How Well Do You Know Me.

Funny Put A Finger Down Questions For Kids

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Get to know your buddies better with fun questions (via Freepik)

Humorous

Silly and fun is the best way to get to know your squad. Ask mom or dad to practice asking Put Your Finger Down questions if you're feeling a little shy at first.

1. Have you laughed so hard you spit out your drink?

2. Have you turned your underwear inside out so you didn’t have to wash them?

3. Have you toilet-papered someone’s house?

4. Have you jumped in a puddle on purpose?

5. Have you eaten an ice cream cone that dripped on your fingers?

6. Have you laughed so hard your tummy hurt?

7. Can you make a funny face?

8. Do you like tickling people (or being tickled)?

Innocent

Keeping it sweet and kind is another way to go with Put Your Finger Down questions. Keep that childhood innocence up a little bit longer, you have the rest of your life to be an adult.

9. Have you received a love letter?

10. Have you cried at school?

11. Have you told a secret you weren’t supposed to share?

12. Have you helped a friend in need?

13. Do you like chocolate?

14. Have you ever built a pillow or blanket fort?

15. Did you ever draw on a wall?

16. Do you have a favorite stuffed animal or toy to sleep with?

17. Have you ever had an imaginary friend?

18. Do you like dressing up (like, as a princess, superhero, in fancy adult clothes)?

19. Do you have a pet at home?

20. Do you enjoy playing hide-and-seek?

21. Have you ever helped your Mom or Dad do an activity they enjoy (cooking, gardening...)?

22. Do you like bedtime stories?

23. Do you like giving hugs?

24. Have you made a drawing to give to someone else?

25. Do you know any entire song(s) by heart?

26. Do you like going to school to see your friends?

27. Do you like farm animals (like cows, pigs, chickens, goat, and horses)?

28. Do you like stories about pirates or princesses?

29. Have you ever helped set the table?

Adventurous

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One finger left now...(via Canva)

Experimenting with new things is a delightful way to teach children about trial and error — or for children to discuss adventures with each other at a slumber party.

30. Have you broken a bone?

31. Have you screamed during a scary movie?

32. Have you been sent to the principal’s office?

33. Have you sung karaoke?

34. Have you ever learned to make your favorite food?

35. Have you tried to cut your own hair?

36. Did you ever beat a video game?

37. Have you seen an alligator in real life?

38. Have you played the card game called War?

39. Have you completed a 500- or 1000-piece puzzle?

40. Do you know how to ride a bike?

41. Do you know how to swim (or are you learning)?

42. Do you like playing outside when the weather is nice?

43. Have you ever swung really high on a swing that you almost flipped upside down?

44. Have you ever had a cast?

45. Do you like fruit (like strawberries, bananas, apples, blueberries)?

Put A Finger Down Questions For Teens & Friends

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Do you really know your besties? (via Freepik)

Crushes and Romance

What's more fun than chatting with your friends about the latest romances in the group? Plus, you'll have a lot of ammunition for gentle teasing later with these crush-related Put a Finger Down questions.

46. Have you dated someone super annoying simply because they’re cute?

47. Have you had a crush on a friend’s sibling?

48. Have you ever flirted to get something you wanted?

49. Have you ever kissed your best friend?

50. Have you had a crush on a teacher?

51. Have you kissed a friend’s ex?

52. Have you used a dumb excuse to text an ex?

53. Have you lied to impress someone?

54. Have you dated someone older than you?

55. Have you ever looked at the clouds and imagined shapes?

Mental Health Mindset

Teens have a lot going on with school and sports — then there's puberty and hormones thrown into the mix: yikes! Here are some Put a Finger Down questions to help you check in on your teen's (or friends') self-talk and self-awareness.

56. Have you lied to someone in this room?

57. Have you ever intentionally started a fight with another person?

58. Have you gotten heated during a family game night?

59. Have you ever pulled an all-nighter?

60. Have you been accused of sharing too much on social media or in the group chat?

61. Have you gone to a party to which you weren’t invited?

62. Has anyone ever thrown a surprise party for you?

63. Have you fallen asleep in class?

64. Did you ever knowingly spread a rumor?

65. Have you eaten whipped cream straight out of the can?

66. Do you struggle to accept your current reality?

67. Do you have migraines from constant stress?

68. Are you scared of public speaking?

69. Do you feel empty and numb easily?

70. Do you cry when you see others cry?

71. Has anyone ever told you that you're “emotional”?

72. Have you seen a rainbow IRL?

73. Do you collect pretty shells or pebbles (or have you ever)?

Are We Even Besties?

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Put a Finger Down questions for your besties (via Freepik)

Do you know your friends as well as you think you do? Try these Put a Finger Down questions out to test that theory!

74. Have you ever eaten an entire carton of ice cream?

75. Have you ever stolen anything?

76. Have you used someone else’s toothbrush?

77. Have you ever seen a ghost?

78. Have you told your parents you were staying at a friend’s house but were really somewhere else?

79. Have you worn something out of your dirty laundry?

80. Do you enjoy a smell that’s supposed to be gross?

81. Have you ever Googled yourself?

82. Have you ever met a celebrity?

83. Have you learned the native language of a place you’ve vacationed?

84. Have you had your luggage misplaced?

85. Have you ever helped a friend lie?

86. Do you have a piercing no one knows about?

87. Have you ever read a whole book in one day?

88. Do you have a driver's license?

89. Have you tried to touch your toes without bending your knees?

90. Have you ever had hiccups that wouldn't stop?

Spicy & Dirty Put A Finger Down Questions For Adults

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On A First Date

These are fun Put a Finger Down questions for getting to know someone better when it's just the two of you. Be ready to open up, as these can get deeply personal quickly (better than sharing in a group, right?)!

91. Have you been told you snore loudly?

92. Have you ever pretended to be on the phone to avoid a conversation?

93. Have you shaved your head?

94. Have you lied on a first date?

95. Have you ever been to a psychic?

96. Have you had a relationship that was completely online?

97. Have you ever cried yourself to sleep?

98. Have you lied about why you were late to work?

99. Have you ever been fired?

100. Have you ever played strip poker?

101. Do you like playing with Legos or building blocks?

102. Do you enjoy star-gazing (in general, not with a telescope)?

103. Have you ever been involved in a car accident?

104. Have you ever cheated on someone?

105. Have you quit or walked out of a job without giving a two-week notice?

106. Have you ever ghosted anyone?

107. Have you ever said “I love you” without meaning it?

108. Have you stayed too long in a relationship that you knew you shouldn’t have?

109. Have you tried skydiving?

110. Have you ever ridden or driven a motorcycle?

111. Have you gotten lost while traveling?

112. Have you ever tried to catch a soap bubble without popping it?

At a House Party/Adult Camping Trip

Yes, you could pull out the usual deck of cards or a guitar, but you could also try your hand at a teasing and fun, flirty round of Put a Finger Down questions.

113. Have you been on TV for an embarrassing reason?

114. Have you ever been skinny-dipping?

115. Have you called in sick to work when you felt just fine?

116. Have you tried to guess someone’s password at work?

117. Have you lost a bet with friends that had interesting (or funny) consequences?

118. Have you used your work credit card for personal reasons?

119. Have you served a customer the wrong item?

120. Do you frequently change your hairstyle?

121. Do you still (or again) live with your parents?

122. Have you been super excited to open Christmas gifts or Hanukkah presents at any point in the past 5 years?

123. Have you driven the wrong way down a one-way road?

124. Have you ever missed a flight?

125. Have you run out of gas while driving?

126. Have you ever been on a cruise?

127. Have you ever ridden in a limo?

With Your Close Friends

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Adults can also take part in the challenge (via Freepik)

When it's just you and your gang, you can get a little more emotionally vulnerable — and learn some fun facts in the process!

128. Have you seriously thought about marrying someone?

129. Have you ever re-gifted a gift?

130. Have you been to a nude beach?

131. Have you been on a blind date?

132. Have you ever kissed more than one person in a single day?

133. Have you forgotten food in the company fridge and it has molded?

134. Have you overcharged a customer and not realized it until they’d left?

135. Have you fallen in love at first sight?

136. Have you ever had a friend with benefits?

137. Have you used a dating app?

138. Have you ever hidden in the bathroom to avoid a work call?

139. Do you like taking naps?

140. Have you been bucked off a horse?

On A Double (or Group) Date

Let's be honest: it can get awkward when you're on a double date or a group date. Put a Finger Down questions can help solve that dilemma.

141. Have you ever laughed at a very inappropriate time?

142. Have you admitted you love your pet(s) more than other humans?

143. Have you ever broken the law?

144. Have you left the printer out of ink for the next person to deal with (at work)?

145. Have you gotten into an argument with your boss?

146. Have you ever gotten on the wrong plane?

147. Have you used a pick-up line?

148. Have you had a relationship lasting less than a month?

149. Have you had a relationship last longer than a year?

150. Have you ever pretended to be asleep so you didn't have to get up?

151. Do you like looking out the window when it's raining?

Gaining deeper insight into your friends and building the foundation of your friendships not only helps to improve your support network, but asking these questions to your friends is a delightful way to figure out pieces of a person's personality that might give you clues for better gift-giving. It's also a fun way to get some ammunition so you can tease your friends or partners in the future.

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