127 Questions For Couples to Rekindle That Spark in 2025

Looking for the right questions for couples to spark deeper conversations? You’re in the right place. It’s crazy to think how, despite being together with the same person for years, you never get to know them fully. Sure, you know their favorite food or the movie they can quote line by line — but the deeper layers? Those often come out only when the right questions are asked.

As every relationship goes through phases, a great way to break routine and strengthen your bond is through conversations. That’s where these prompts come in. Whether it’s a cozy date night, a long road trip or just your morning coffee, these relationship-building questions are a simple yet powerful way to keep things fresh and exciting.

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• What are good couples questions?
• Marriage Questions To Ask
• Fun Couple Questions
• Deep Questions For Couples
• Juicy & Spicy Questions For Couples
• Romantic Questions For Couples

What are Good Couples Questions?

My fiancé and I have been together for almost 9 years. One night, we decided to stay in and order pizza, and as we were deciding what movie to watch, which was taking longer than expected, I bumped into a TikTok about random questions to ask your friends.

I immediately had a flashback to my high school days, when I'd sleep over with friends and we'd obsess over these check-in questions. We'd talk about our dreams and hopes for the future. These were truly the best conversations that I'll remember to this day!

That night, we started asking all kinds of relationship-building questions and ended up talking the entire night (just like we did when we started dating). Something we learned is that it wasn’t the serious or heavy questions that mattered most, but the ones that brought back memories or helped us recall why we were together in the first place.

Marriage Questions To Ask

Marriage has a way of settling into routine, juggling work, kids, and responsibilities that can make conversations feel surface-level. But with the right questions to ask a spouse, you can shift that dynamic and breathe fresh energy into the relationship. Test each other with these How well do you know me questions, which are guaranteed to bring some laughs, but also deep conversations. 

1. What’s something you’ve learned about yourself since we married?

2. Which habit of mine secretly inspires you?

3. If money wasn’t an issue, what project would we start together?

4. What small gesture makes you feel most loved?

5. What dream date night have you never told me about?

6. What song best describes our marriage?

7. What would our younger selves find funniest about us now?

8. If we unplugged for a day, how would you spend it with me?

9. What new family tradition would you start tomorrow?

10. Who’d survive longer in a zombie apocalypse — you or me?

11. What legacy do you want us to build?

12. If our marriage were a TV show, what’s the title?

13. What’s one change we should make next year to grow stronger?

14. What “couple hobby” would we be hilariously bad at?

15. What advice would we give our future kids about marriage?

16. What dream have you never shared with me?

17. What’s the funniest argument we’ve had?

18. What do you think our marriage teaches others?

19. In a dream home, what’s your non-negotiable feature?

20. What’s the hardest thing about being with me (and why still choose it)?

21. If we could relive one year of marriage, which would it be?

22. What do strangers notice about us?

23. What makes us different from other couples?

24. What’s the first thing on our 5-year couples’ bucket list?

25. If we had to enter a competition together, what’s the one thing we’d actually win at?

Fun Couple Questions

It’s always the fun and silly questions that allow you to get to know the other person better. By coming up with random questions to ask your partner, you get a dramatic confession that still makes you laugh. You may find out that your partner doesn't really have a peanut allergy at all — they might just despise them. Through these fun questions for couples, you’ll uncover quirks you never saw coming, and maybe a few dramatic confessions of your own. 

26. If we had to swap lives for a week, what part of my routine would drive you absolutely crazy?

27. If we were stuck in a rom-com, what would the “meet cute” scene look like?

28. If you were a ghost, how would you haunt people?

29. If we had to compete on a cooking show together, what would get us eliminated?

30. If you could ban one household chore forever, which one would you “accidentally” assign to me?

31. If you had to be handcuffed to one person for a week, who would it be and why?

32. If our relationship had a smell, what would it be?

33. What’s the most unusual thing you’ve ever eaten?

34. What’s the dumbest purchase you’d probably make if you suddenly won the lottery?

35. If you could make one law that everyone had to follow, what would it be?

36. What ridiculous couple name would the tabloids give us if we were famous?

37. What’s the silliest fear you have?

38. If our pets could spill our secrets, what would be the funniest one they’d tell?

39. If you could only speak in movie quotes for a day, which movie would you pick?

40. If we had our own couple podcast, what would it be called and what would it be about? 

41. If we got matching tattoos after a wild night, what would they be?

42. What’s the weirdest thing you’ve ever Googled in the middle of the night?

43. If we had a “couple signature drink,” what would it be called?

44. What’s the funniest thing you could imagine us being famous for?

45. If we had to survive on one food forever, but it had to be weird, what would you choose?

46. Which one of us would make the worst superhero sidekick? 

47. What’s the weirdest excuse you’ve ever used to get out of something?

48. If you could have an unlimited supply of something useless, what would it be?

49. If you could instantly become an expert in something ridiculous, what would it be?

50. If you could create a new ice cream flavor, what weird combo would it be?

Deep Questions For Couples

You probably know their coffee order by heart, but do you know what they’d change about their childhood if they could? Deep conversations don’t always have to feel heavy; sometimes, they’re just what you need to discover a side of your partner you’ve never seen. With these deep questions to ask, you’ll get to peel another layer, that will help you understand more about them, their stories, thoughts and dreams. 

51. When did you first realize you loved me?

52. Who in your life has influenced you the most, and why?

53. How do you know when you can fully trust someone?

54. What do you think is the biggest strength in our relationship?

55. What accomplishment are you most proud of, even if it's not a big one?

56. When was the last time you cried, and why?

57. Do you believe in fate, or do you think we make our own destiny? 

58. What do you think our biggest challenge as a couple has been?

59. How do you think love changes over time?

60. What does “home” mean to you?

61. What’s something about yourself you’re still trying to understand?

62. If you could relive one day of your life with me, which would it be?

63. What’s the hardest lesson you’ve learned in life so far?

64. How do you define success in your own life?

65. What’s one moment in our relationship that made you feel truly seen?

66. What do you think is the most underrated quality in a partner?

67. How do you handle moments when you feel misunderstood?

68. When was the last time you felt truly at peace?

69. How do you think we’ve influenced each other’s personalities?

70. What’s a “what if” scenario you sometimes imagine about our relationship?

71. If we wrote vows today, what new promises would you include?

72. If we could go back and give our “new couple” selves advice, what would it be?

73. If our relationship had a “motto” or mantra, what would it be?

74. How do you think we balance each other out as people?

75. What’s one thing about our relationship that feels sacred to you?

76. What’s the biggest difference between “being in love” and “choosing love”?

Juicy & Spicy Questions for Couples

I remember the first time I asked a spicy question just to tease my partner, the answer completely caught me off guard! Sometimes the best conversations aren’t the polite ones, but the ones that make you blush, laugh or get a little close. These spicy questions for couples are ideal not only to get you in the mood but also to keep the fire alive in ways you might not expect. 

77. What role-play scenario would you want to try with me?

78. What’s your favorite part of my body?

79. If we could sneak away for a weekend, what would you want us to do?

80. What is your biggest sexual fantasy?

81. What’s the boldest thing you’d dare to do with me in public?

82. What turns you on the most about me?

83. Do you like it when I take control, or when you do?

84. What’s the most unforgettable intimate moment we’ve had?

85. What’s one way we could make our intimacy more exciting?

86. Do you enjoy surprises in the bedroom or prefer to plan things out?

87. What’s a fantasy location you’d love for us to try being intimate in?

88. What’s the most unexpected thing I’ve ever done that you found attractive?

89. What’s your favorite type of foreplay?

90. If we played “truth or dare,” what would you ask me?

91. Have you ever fantasized about me?

92. What song instantly puts you in the mood?

93. If I dared you right now, what’s the boldest thing you’d do?

94. Who’s more likely to start something first — you or me?

95. Have you ever been turned on at work?

96. How can I make you feel more desired and wanted?

97. What’s the hottest memory you have of the two of us?

98. What physical sensation or touch do you enjoy the most?

99. Who’s your celebrity hall pass?

100. Would you have a threesome? 

101. Where’s the weirdest place you’ve had sex?

Romantic Questions For Couples

That night, after we spent asking each other all types of questions inspired by TikTok, there was one answer my partner gave that completely warmed my heart. For me, that night made me notice how even after all the time we’ve spent together, there are still new little things to discover that make me fall in love all over again! That’s exactly the magic of these questions to get to know someone — they’re simply prompts that can link to these moments that you’ll treasure forever. 

102. What was the first thing that drew you to me?

103. What makes you feel the most connected to me?

104. What’s one thing you never get tired of about us?

105. Do you remember the first compliment I gave you?

106. What’s your favorite way I say “I love you” without words?

107. What’s your favorite romantic comedy?

108. Do you remember the first time you introduced me to someone special in your life?

109. If we had a “signature” date spot, where would it be?

110. What type of romantic gestures mean the most to you?

111. When did you first feel truly comfortable being yourself with me? 

112. Which season (spring, summer, fall, winter) best describes our relationship and why?

113. What scent or smell instantly reminds you of me?

114. If we could leave a “love note” for future generations about relationships, what would it say

115. What invention would you create just to make our love life easier or more fun?

116. Which city in the world do you think matches our relationship’s “vibe” the best?

117. If I planned a surprise romantic day for you, what would you hope it included?

118. If we had to send a “romantic time capsule” to our future selves, what three items would you put inside?

119. Name three things we have in common. 

120. If our love had a soundtrack, what genre would dominate it — jazz, rock, classical, or something else?

121. What’s one thing you hope we never stop doing as a couple?

122. What’s one of your favorite photos of us together, and why?

123. What’s one thing about our relationship that makes you feel lucky?

124. If you could ask a psychic one question about your future, what would you want to know? 

125. What’s your favorite “quiet moment” we’ve ever shared together?

126. What’s your favorite way we spend lazy days together?

127. Do you feel we’re more alike or more complementary — and how does that help us?

These questions for couples not only spark interesting conversations — they spark feelings. Whether you want to spice things up with your partner, or simply make space to get to know them better — regardless of how much time you’ve spent together — these questions are the perfect excuse to open the space for a heartfelt conversation.

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